Often when we start dating someone, we want to be with them even when we’re not together physically. In such times, talking on phone makes a lot of sense. But more often than not, it has been seen that we run out of topics. What then? If you don’t have much content to talk about, then it may make him believe that you aren’t an interesting person.
Here are few suggested topics that will probably answer the question ‘what to talk about with a guy on the phone’.
Start questioning! Questioning is one such thing that will give you two advantages- it will make him feel that you’re interested in him and it will also increase your knowledge about his personality.
Generally, people get started with likes and dislikes. When you ask this question, you’ll most probably get direct answers. For examples-Question: “So, what are your likes and dislikes?” Answer: I like soccer, bikes and I hate going to college every day.
Here this topic ends and hence you will have to think of something else to talk about with a guy on the phone. I have a little suggestion here. Elaborate your question! I mean, when he gives you a direct answer, try asking him:
All these questions are about his likes and dislikes. I am sure that you get my point that you have to ask these questions in a conversation, otherwise you will end up having an interview round with that guy, which might be something you aren’t really looking forward to.
Once you are done with the likes/dislikes. Try something else. Try ‘aims’!
Ask him about his aims. Just like the last times, this question too will have a direct answer. And once again I have the similar tip for you- elaborate your question!
Try these questions:
I hope you get what I wanted to explain you!
Another topic that can make you keep talking for hours is – ‘what if’!
That’s all for now, we’ll be back with this topic soon!